Meesha,
I think the general solution in your case is to split the fixes. If the door faces a good direction for you, then face the bed in a good direction for your husband, and vice versa.
I read somewhere that the best solution for couples in which one person is an east person and the other is a west person, is for each to sleep in a different bedroom. I don't know if that is feasible for you, but I think I would personally prefer that option.