Natural Brilliance & Abundance For Life for goals 1-4 or the Ultimate You Library in the Paraliminals.
For your studies you'll also find PhotoReading, and possibly Memory Optimizer useful goal 1. Memory Optimizer Paraliminal comes with the PhotoReading course you might also find Personal Genius useful.
Goal 4 might also benefit from Resiliency. In the Paraliminals Self-Esteem Supercharger Anxiety-Free and prosperity in the Paraliminals. New History Generator.
For your daughter. Four powers of greatness. Paraliminals - Self-Esteem Supercharger, Personal Genius and Memory Optimizer
If you want just had to narrow it down to 2 choices. Natural Brilliance and Abundance For Life would be the courses. The first 2 Prelude CDs in Abundance For Life teach you some important skills that can help you through many challenges. Natural Brilliance - move beyond your stop signs

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