Forums IMPORTANT: PLEASE READ Paraliminals, Paraliminal Resets, Paraliminal Walkabouts, Natural Brilliance, Sonic Access aNXIETY QUESTION

i GOT MY pl LISTEND TO IT QUITE A FEW TIMES NOW NO RESULTS
trying to solve these issues
PROBLEM ACCEPTING REJECTION OR SETBACK, ANXIETY DUE TO FEAR OF REJECTION,
any suggestions?
Thanks

Seekers,

What's crackalackin? And since I'm part cracker, I'll say nothin' be lackin’ right hurr. Anyway, which Paraliminal did you purchase? No worries, I’ll go on what we have, with a smile: -)

Fear of rejection, Hmmmm. . . Do you know how many people suffer from this? Well, most everybody does or at least has. Ironically, the biggest reason one gets rejected is. . . the other person or people are also afraid of rejection. And/or they want to feel like they are better than another, and this “rating” creates separation and judgments that are damaging to the psyche(like attracts like, so fear attracts fear). No worries, you have already done the hardest part. . .and that is making the first step.(“mae” is Scottish for more, so one definition of “making” means more-king, and brings you one step closer to living an abundant life) Mae was also my mom’s middle name. : -) Or how about mak (as in make) Ing (as is the Norse god). This refers to balancing the harmonious relationship between ourselves and the four elements and four directions. (Reminds me of Sonic Access, in a way)

Love yourself first. Yeah, I know the thought of it can be extremely difficult, but herein lies the problem. Thinking is a useless activity, and I’ll tell you why (hence the words thin-king). When a person thinks, they are creating, more like re-creating a scenario in their head, of a bad experience from the past. Or, maybe coming up with new reasons or possibilities why they shouldn’t be liked or live an abundant life (all of these are pre programmed brain actions). When we center ourselves and quiet the brain, what comes to us from the universe is a thought (Thoth), and yes there is a difference between thinking and thought. This will become more apparent soon. . . perseverance is the key.

So how do we attain this. . .well, the good thing is that you possess all of the tools within yourself. Your experience with Learning Strategies and Paraliminals are physical fruit from when you manifested wanting to improve the quality of your life. This journey is moving you towards giving self love, which is when you will see more of it (love and acceptance) in your physical reality.

Paraliminals are incredibly good to create the new positive neural pathways, to bring forth the real you that you know is there, deep down. I recommend “Deep relaxation,” as this is great for calming the mind and body, with deep breathing and paraliminal magic. I remember a response from Jeanne, she wrote, “it probably took awhile to get that way--wouldn't you agree?” This is an accurate response to your not seeing immediate results. . .have patience. The new happy reprogramming will be tremendously faster than the original programming of inadequacy. (We’ve all been there. . . many still are. . . but not for long)

I like to get my body movin’ (good Beastie Boys song) and rollerblade, do cardio, work out, and do yoga. . .obviously do whatever YOU enjoy. When we exercise, we literally “Exercise” the negativity from our mind (misdirection, Houdini style). So, you can join the group of elite exorcists and exercise your way to a calmer mind. : -) This spiritual master stuff is easy on paper, ha-ha : -)

Also, how about going to a comedy club or watching your favorite stand up comedian on video, as laughter really is the best medicine. I just watched a very funny Mitch Hedberg DVD; this Minnesota native is one of my all time favorites.(RIP)

~Hilarion~

P.S. Why am I so long winded? Brings me back to Houdini. In short, only when we take our mind off of ourselves to show authentic interest and concern for others, will true relief from our own problems occur. That is why I write about things that seem completely unrelated at times. . . because in the grand scheme of things, everything is related.

~Chryst-all Quartz~

I appreciate your response, but it looks like you have just dissected the issues I have and justified having it. suggestions you have offered are mostly general,language you have used is difficult for me to understand. I am simple person and understand plain and straight talk easily. I am looking for something specific to the paraminals. I am sorry if this offend you but I don't know how to speak my mind diplomatically


FYI I bought Anxiety free, Self esteem, NHG, getting around it, sales leap and using them , recently I ordered everything including 4 new para and waiting for the delivery.

Seekers,


Thank you for being honest with your response. : -) no worries. : -)

I like using the paraliminals and repeating track #3 once or twice to get the most from the sessions. Also, you could try repeating track #3 while you sleep, look in the instructions under the “Sleep Learning” section.

You ordered four new paraliminals, that can be a very exiting! Which ones did you order? The "Happy For No Reason" paraliminal is a good one for help with anxiety and fear.

In response to your post. . .I leave detailed explanations to get to the root of the issues at hand. Your question stated, "trying to solve these issues," and breaking the situation down can be very helpful in understanding and solving “issues.” Some people prefer a detailed explanation and some do not. It really depends on your level of understanding and how quickly you want results.

I highly recommend “Personal Genius,” this one will open up your mind and really unlock your intelligence. Seekers, you really are a genius. . .and this paraliminal will help you realize that. This is my favorite of all the paraliminals, and it is also good to help with all of the “issues” that you mentioned.

Be persistent with the paraliminals & you will succeed. : -)

Best Wishes,

~Chad~

Hi Seekers

I am wondering how you are stating your intention at the beginning, before listening. It is important to state your goal in the posiitve rather than the negative. Doing this will bring you the best results.
ie: "I can welcome new ideas" rather than "I will not be not closed minded "
or "I feel calm and relaxed" instead of "I don't panic"

Another thing you can do is to write some lists: Things you have accomplished (they dont have to be impressive to anyone else), Personal strengths and qualities, Involvement with community, groups, volunteering, etc. Then, looking yourself in the eye in a mirror, tell yourself about those things. These are some of the many ways that you bring value to the community, to the world.

Every time you think of another one, add it to a list.

vitaman

Seekers,

While looking deeper into your situation, I noticed the paraliminals are working well for you. This is apparent in your miraculous overnight improvement in capital and lower case letter usage. I looked back and saw that you were having trouble, in your past letters, with deciphering the difference. And now you’re excellent with this task. Way to go!

I enjoy making use of my intellect and writing skills. I see that you made an attempt at negative comments, due to being intimidated by the content. If you don’t understand, just politely say “ I don’t understand,” without trying to critique and be negative. This negativity about in-depth writing, which appears to be above your perceived intellect level, only shows your frustration and lack of love for others.

I am one of the few who actually takes the time to help people really understand what is going on inside their head. I burned a cross in my forearm several times with a soldering iron when I was 18, so I know how it feels to be frustrated. And when you try to take stabs at the people who are offering their time and energy, it is both ignorant and counterproductive. People apologize when they feel guilty. And the apology is for the one giving it, not the one receiving it. My friend, I really do care. . .and compassion is the only way for me.

If you have trouble with understanding my posts, then by all means, ask for help. I will be abundantly happy to take the time to explain anything that you do not understand. If you want to send to my mailbox to keep things private, you may.

I wrote this for everyone to consider. . .as we are all here for basically the same reasons. Having an open heart & mind is essential for success, in any area of life.

Wishing you the best on your journey. . .

~Chad

When you listen to the Paraliminals don't listen to them with the idea of dealing with rejection.

Instead focus on the goal of feeling okay with yourself no matter what the other person says or does. So that you stop checking to see if you were being rejected in the first place.

So Anxiety-Free feel good about yourself. Surrounded by people who make you feel comfortable and like being around you. There may be people there who do not seem to like you and that doesn't matter because that's not part of the picture. The picture is you're cool calm and collected and with people you feel comfortable being around.

Alex