Forums IMPORTANT: PLEASE READ Paraliminals, Paraliminal Resets, Paraliminal Walkabouts, Natural Brilliance, Sonic Access Setting goals in New History Generator

Hi

I'm feeling some difficulties in defining a goal for the the New History Generator - Side A.
In the paraliminal, the listener is asked to remember a specific event from his past that is limiting in some way his actions today. Then it is asked to think about he would like to feel if that event happens again.
My problem is related with the first question, the specific event from the past.
I'm using the New history Generator to try to solve some issues I have about interacting with women. It's a mix of limiting feelings....sometimes it's fear, others it's a feeling of inadequacy, I don't feel at ease, other times it's just not knowing what to say to keep a conversation...and it always happens with the women for which I feel attracted to. And when I am rejected, I can't keep a normal friendship with them....I feel resented a lot and treat them bad, i.e., I stop giving them attention, I act as if I don't care about them anymore (I feel like I have to get some vengeance for being rejected).
So, as you can see this is a huge mix of feelings and behaviours and it's really hard to think "This event is the cause for this feeling or behaviour and I will use it in this paraliminal".
So, I would like to know your sugestions on how to approach this.

Thank you very much

Hi rbarata.

I have started with a specific limitation or feeling, with the trust that my subconcious mind will know what the events are and work with them. This approach has worked for me when I do not conciously remember an event, or when there has been a cluster or string of events.

I think you can clean this all up using New History A. Conisder also using side B at the end of any day that you have interactions with attractive women, regardless of the outcome. This will help you process what happened and prepare for more success next time.

If you have other paraliminals, self esteem supercharger and positive relationships might be useful as well.

vitaman

Sometimes if you are stuck on getting clear on session a questions check session B it might be the better one to start with. You stated what your goal was and session B would have been the perfect session to work witth.

After working with Session B for a while you might uncover that the past problem and then you can come to session A.

Just because they are labelled session A and B doesn't mean that a= use this first. That's why it's important to have a look in the booklet for how to use each session.

Alex