Forgive my delayed reply, I say this the other day and had to really contemplate my response.......
From what I understand, pain in the ears is caused by some sort of energy imbalance in the kidney channels and heart channels.
The sleeplessness and pain would indicate that the extra energy is going to the head. The grinding of teeth is also a symptom of that as well as perhaps some unconscious, and unresolved fear.
Fear drains the kidneys, causing the mind to race, and if it's mostly unconscious, it'll manifest in subtle ways such as grinding the teeth during sleep.
Open the C7 point at the back of the neck (where the neck meets the shoulders, it bulges out more noticeably than the rest of the vertebra) this point is like a huge post office, sending messages to the rest of the body. You should always start a healing with this point, but I wanted to put it down here as it fits with the rest.
The back of the head, where the neck meets the skull is another important one to open ( you can feel a bulge here too). This is just like C7, a huge information center, only this one is on the more unconscious level. It is where the brain stems and our sub-conscious thinking is there, rather than concrete thought-streams, (if you use your awareness and gently sink your mind to this point) you'll notice that the thinking here is -very- subtle and almost empty, yet VERY full with life and Essence.
You'll probably want to open the point between the kidneys as well, and give energy to the kidneys. This will help with whatever unconscious fear may still exist in the mind.
The same goes with the heart, healing the heart will give comfort to the person and extra confidence that'll be necessary to overcome whatever it is.
When using your energy to help her, do so from the highest perspective of love that you can. In your mind, stand with the Master and experience the healing love of the Master (Higher Self, Collective Consciousness, God, or whatever concept of God you have, internal, etc) Let that bliss channel through you into the other person, that'll be the most effective heal.
Don't worry about "will it work" or even "worrying about the concepts of the 'problem'" while you do the healing. Stay in a state of bliss and transmit that to her--knowing that the problem is completely gone, that'll be most beneficial. Which is far more effective than with "is it going away?"
It would also be beneficial for her to try to find the cause of the problem, since it's buried in her sub-concious. Have her reassure herself that everything is wonderful all of the time, and when a thought arises (and one probably will) that "doesn't feel so wonderful" --that's probably the one you're looking for or at least something you can trace it's route.
To trace the route of a thought or emotion to it's unconscious pattern. One should ask themselves something like "from where does that thought/feeling/sensation arise?" A subtle feeling will come up, as well as a subtle feeling of resistance. Both of these -are- in fact the same mental object, the "negetive-emotion//resisted-emotion state" is one feeling. Immediately after this string of energy-thought arises, remove whatever mental label you have of it and look at it as emptiness. Don't try to change or get rid of it, just look at it as Emptiness that's condensed into energy--and it will dissolve by itself.
This is called "Quantum Observation" and can be used to dismantle ANY series of thoughts, by looking at them as just emptiness and "experiencing the energy without trying to change or get rid of it, it deconstructs itself, because it was made from nothing". In fact, Quantum Observation and QiGong are the same because you are working with the level of Essence (Emptiness, Energy) and --not-- the level of form (physical problems, objects, sickness, or other "labels")
If you can, get her started on level 1, or at least have her -try- the Self Concentration and Small Universe Meditations, it can only help. If she doesn't have time in the day to do them, she can listen to them at night when falling asleep (which would probably help A LOT), the sub-concious mind will do the rest. If she's the type that can't sleep to 'someone talking' then have her put on classical music and loop it, that'll help as well.
One last thing, the ego mind might try to trick you with doubt, disappointment, etc. Even those can be reverse-engineered by looking at it as energy. Quantum Observation *is* God's fail-safe. There is NO thought, feeling or emotion that CANNOT be dissolved by "looking at it as energy without any intention to remove it." Do so and may all of your limits be undone and awaken into your highest potential.
God bless and may you join with the Master, become One with the Master and become the Master.
~Z
