Forums IMPORTANT: PLEASE READ Paraliminals, Paraliminal Resets, Paraliminal Walkabouts, Natural Brilliance, Sonic Access Help with sadness, depressive feelings

Up until recently, I had reasonably good self-esteem, positive beliefs and thoughts and a general feeling of happiness and well-being.

However, due to some problems I am having with relationships which have shaken me to the core, I am starting to sink into depressive feelings. I am feeling worthless, unlovable, and sad. I feel like nobody wants me around, and that there is something fundamentally unlovable about me.

It is hard to keep feeling worthwhile when evidence (and people's treatment of me) consistently keeps suggesting that I am not. I know I should think positively, focus on what I want, and so on; but now I am feeling like I just can't be bothered anymore.

So, are there any paraliminals which would help me? Self-esteem supercharger perhaps? As I said, my self-esteem was reasonably good until all this happened.

Thanks, and sorry for the rant.

It sounds like your feelings are a response to a very difficult situation. It can be hard to lose a relationship.

Given your situation you are right to think the Self-Esteem Super Charger will help you. But also you may want to try New History Generator to get over your feelings about past events.

Hay you

STOP IT!!!!!!!!!!!

Blue_Butterfly..

Hiya..

As I am typing this I am in two minds, of if i should continue, and not post it, or if i should just go with what comes, out.. It seems that I am goig to just go with the flow, and say what comes to mind.

Relationships are a little bit like jigsaw puzzles, in many ways, we have to work at building them, first with our self.. them with the rest of the world, if you have the big picture in front of you then, you will know, what paths to take, and how you want things to ture out, Now i know right now your having a hard time cos you have posted your issue, yet like anything, if we allow it to overwhele us then we will, get court up in it flow, yet if you take a little time and ask your self, in the bigger piture what will you feel about this time in ten years time? more then lighty you wont even remember, so take a little time now to think about all your good points, remember your best times, review, whats happend and aim, for a better time, with all the skills that you already have.. self-esteem.. supercharger, would be good, I also think now option gen... would help to point you in a more healthy direction..

Anyways I hope My clumsy post was helpful..

May your best day be with you always.

Hi B_B:

I've found that using a combination that was suggested in the booklets works real good - Prosperity, with a focus for having an abundance of loving, supportive people in your life, then Self-Esteem Supercharger, to get into the depths of your own goodness, and follow-up with New History Generator, which can open up new avenues for you to connect with people who do appreciate you for YOU.

Also, please consider something you may have missed (I did at first), which is that as we grow in our lives, sometimes we have to let others catch up to us, and just because they're not coming from the same space anymore, doesn't make them OR you any less. Unfortunately, people who aren't ready to grow tend to like to keep everyone else at their level. When they see you have moved ahead, they try to pull you back to their level, usually by battering your self-esteem. Pease don't succumb to that - spread your pretty blue wings and fly, baby, fly!!!

Cheers!
Unis

[This message has been edited by Unis (edited June 16, 2005).]

Thanks roddaut, Theone and Unis.

Self-Esteem Supercharger, Instantaneous Personal Magentism and Personal Relationships Paraliminals for working on yourself.

For depression, try some Holiday Cheer.

In all Blue Butterfly. I think you got some good replies. It's hard not to get down on oneself when the going gets rough but there are people who care about you. Some have odd names and you haven't met them personally. Some are silent just watching the side wishing you the best. If nothing else, hang in there you made it this far.

Alex

Thanks Alex.