Thanks for your suggestions Alex & Liz but I have a problem with Dream Play...My mind doesn't want to change the way I dream..I've always dreamed real dreams,bright,vivid, in color,sometimes of the future, sometimes of the past that related to problems in the present, a voice that encouraged me & told me things I needed to do, a guide took me places & shoed me things(usually nice) but the last time I dreamed of him he showed me the path I had traveled so far and said " your looking back at your path and you haven't often deviated from it but your stuck here & your're only 2/3 of the way on your path..you need to stop looking at the past & get back on your path & finish what you came to do, guidance will come.." 3 days later I recieved a letter that sent me to Learning statagies..I used the Dream Play CD for a week but unfortunately, my dreamimg mind balked at dreaming metaphorically & I only remembered 2 dreams since than & they were hazy not at all like my other dreams.
I gave my deep relaxation tape to my grandson & he manage to break it last week..I suspect I seem a bit of a problem when asking for advise and than not taking it..sorry about that
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