Only the person 'within' can help.
Change your thinking/thoughts and they will help to change your outcome in life. Yes, this applies to meeting women.
Opportunity to meet women are bountyful! If you keep knocking, opportunity to meet a woman will eventually present itself. The law of averages ... ya can't go wrong.
Aside from the diffences between men and women ... they are no different than us in 'wanting' to meet members of the opposite sex.
Did ya ever wonder why it is that so many beautiful and I mean beautiful women are seen with men that just don't have the 'looks'? I'm not trying to be mean or anything but the point is ... there are tons of women out there 'waiting' to be approached!
So take the steps and start knocking, if the doors don't open, go to the next one!