You might like to try this three list method. It's a bit like a pros and cons but you make three list.
Must have, Would be nice, Definately don't want.
Make a list of the kind of person you would like to attact using a sheet of paper divided into those three columns. Put the list aside. The next week make another list without looking at the first. Then the following week another one. The fourth week look at all three list and notice what you put in each column. Those items that you repeated each week are more important and some are not as important as you first thought. Once you know what you want it's easier to attract it.
That list method would apply to things like jobs, homes, cars, property, working environment. A useful way to gain clarity for the 7 step process.
Alex
