Very well said, I do agree with you and feel that my words fall short of describing that final state and show only a partial view.
Absolutely, I agree that thoughts arise and action follows without an actor and yes the paradox of the actor being a real part of the totality "A and not A"
"I am Not, but the Universe is my Self"
Shih T'ou
or as Wei Wu Wei says;
"I am neither present nor absent.
I can never be known as an object in mind, For I am what is knowing, and even 'mind' is my object."
Sorry, but I just had to throw a few words in other than my own which are sorely lacking 
I don't know if you have ever read Wei Wu Wei but I think you would really like him. His books are difficult to track down though as many are out of print.
