You're concentrating too much on the process or act of instead of enjoying what comes.
I remember once hearing that at any given time 'the tool' as I'll name it ... operates at different efficiencies. Don't expect 100% operation all the time ...
Relaxing is very key. Let me explain. One night, I had gone to bed before my wife to rest before you know what. Enter wife. Me wakey. Tool ready and charged at 100%. Relax.
