I am unable to form a clear concept in my mind of what it take to keep a relationship growing. How can I focus on increasing values in a relationship. Mainly a romantic relationship.

I am very dissapointed with all the erroneous info that is being spoon fed to men on how to seduce, manipulate, capture a woman's heart. I see that a lot of it is greatly dishonest. For me who is serious about love what good what it good would it do for me to play games.

At my age I hope meeting a mature woman shouldn't be hard. I don't want to play the jerk games, the speed seduction crap, or other techniques of decieving women. I just want to have a healthy relationship and be honest.

Maybe someone with knowledge on this could help me.