A lot of the paraliminals should help you out. I recommend the Natural Brilliance course, but if you can't afford that and are using the New Behavior Generator then you should focus on happiness and positive statements. Don’t set your goals on eliminating something, but state your goals in a more positive tone. For example, you shouldn’t say that I don’t want people to get to me but rather say something like I will let go of any thoughts and laugh when someone gets to me.
