Hi Margaret,
Thanks for answering. Just an update on the daughter. I think I was in major stress for a variety of reasons when she left and it was just the last straw. But, to show you how fickle I am, she is coming home on Monday for the summer and I am dreading it. I have become so accustom to her being gone and use her room as my "retreat" room. All I can see is the mess that occurs when she is here and the lost of some of my privacy. Anyway, funny how our problems are really just generated from the mind and are then projected outwards. I also know that lots of it was my own fears that I have been able to deal with this past year by h/s and IP.