One thing I learned with Bandler is that charisma is about how you feel. Don't you know an ugly person who is so charming that they just attract a lot of people? I know a couple. It feels good to be with them because they feel sooooo good!

One of the exercices I give my students in trainings is to find a wonderful feeling and AMPLIFY IT! Get it as intense as possible using breathing, sounds and pictures and double it again until the person glows!

Usually, those who felt the most pleasure during the exercises attract others like flies even outside the room with strangers!

That's one way of becoming more attractive among a lot of possibilities

Alex