Iam2:
Exactly the reason i must go into solitude, to push back into dynamic equilibrium (our french friend "Le Chatty's" principle). Since i have spent the last 2 years focusing on my appeal (e.g. my soceital self), i must now shift into body and mind "mode" aggressively. I feel 4 months will be enough to bring back a feeling of great accomplishment (i know about Paul's ,be happy to do, not do to be happy concept, but i still feel an honest attempt at the next 4 months will teach me something oneway or another,aka feedback)
I do not believe in the three selfs as distinct entities, i feel they overlap like 3-d venn diagrams with amorphous dimensions. In other words they at once are part of the same set of elements, and yet not the same throughout. (not very coherent, but i am sure someone else can explain it more clearly) 
