If you want to change a belief dramatically, NLP is a good tool for that.
One way is to imagine clearly, very clearly, what you want to believe. See every detail. Like imagine a picture right in front of you, that you stand in the picture, situation itself. The clearer and more live you get it, the better. Then notice all the feelings you get from this.. And again, see the picture very clearly, notice the feelings. When being in the situation, nod your head and say and feel that "this is right, this is real". Maybe you at first will get much hesitation, because you feel that it's not real.. but keep on keeping on. See the picture again, say and feel that this is real. Say it, nod your head, this is real.. it is. (Even if you feel that it is not, then it is!). Feel it. It is.. This is right.
Just only use this if you know that it will benefit you. You will override any doubts and you will change a belief really quickly. Often within a few minutes I have experienced. Especially the situation you imagined. Try it and see how it works..
Afterwards you will see, that you will think in lanes of you new belief. Thinking that it is like this and this. It has been integrated then. But it's not a toy! Know that it will benefit you in all ways.
Murof.
[This message has been edited by Murof (edited August 03, 2003).]