Hi there
I have been in contact through telephone and email with a young woman, who used something like speed seduction on me. I've always tried to confront her about it, but she always completely denies it. Yesterday, I confronted her about several of her tactics, like using the words "new direction" and guiding me into a vivid visual state with images of "insects". She totally denied it, and said she was concerned about my email to her about it, she said I must speak to someone about it, as if to say I must have my head read. After reading her email of denial I started believing that the paraliminals must have put me into trance-like states that were making me believe I was experiencing such. Or that I had somehow dreamt it and got reality confused with dreamland. Her denial made me feel more than just confused.
I thought that if she told the truth and said she used such techniques I could live with it, but no. Now I feel like I'm going crazy.
These are the questions I want to ask the people here: Is this a common thing for seducers of this sort to totally deny using such tactics? Could she have been hypnotized to use these tactics when possible? - she said she has never consciously flirted with anybody. And what steps can I take to undo damage done by such seduction? What are my next steps?
Please give your advice
I'm a bit confused by such lies, but how do I believe they are lies. I don't even know if it could have been someone else on the phone.
Regards
Grant