From a Natural Brilliance perspective, I have to ask, what is it she WANTS? What is her OUTCOME oriented towards?
Remember, many people, especially women, learn a few tricks that work and integrate them at the level of "unconscious competence." They don't <I>know</I> that they're doing it.
Now, I just had a dream about Speed Seduction, so I'd say that she probably knows damned well what she's doing. The question is, what does she want? If she wants to have sex with you, you can cut to the chase by giving her a simple yes-or-no answer to her roundabout request. If she wants to play around with language, you can either tell her to cut the crap, or you can play along. If she wants to harm you by putting you into obsessive states, you can cease contact. Whatever you NOTICE she's doing, you can RESPOND effectively. But, first RELEASE and get receptive enough to consider overlooked possibilities.
