I'm not into polyamory either, but I do think the vidoes were worth the money. Much of it is repitition of what's part of the "Natural Brilliance" Home Study Course. At heart, both courses teach one how to go beyond one's comfort zone and remove one's stop-signs. Both courses explain the nature of pathological trance ("Stop Signs" for NB, "Curses" for BC), and give a set of tools to move beyond those states.