Last Friday my son a bright,funny and athletic individual went to work. Five hours later he had been crushed under a dumper truck. Besides my own anger and grief I am afraid for my partner, she looks so broken. I know this is heavy, but I want to help her the best that I can, and the other children. My partners sister-in-law is a staunch Roman Catholic, we envy her in her faith. I just hope amongst all the collective wisdom that is on this forum that I can find something to cling to. Nothing makes any sense.