I get a little more than two hours a day. That's just the typical amount of time I've spent per day, during the last year, that we spend working on educational development.
She does get love. She also get lectures and hugs when she expresses the idea that she has to do well to be liked or loved. She is getting so many mature ideas about being and loving unconditionally that if this stuff sinks in she'll be a scarily mature kids. Oooops she already is and always has been. She knows in her head that she doesn't but her heart sometimes forgets. Although I think that a lot of the recent progress has be the result of her feeling it more often.
I've tried other things too. I do SFQ, and I've sent loves of love and worked her small universe and opened her channels. BTW, nasal congestion, since SFQ, is virtually non-existant. In past years she has be congested almost half the time, which makes learning a second language a little harder.
I had considered leaving work and home schooling, but I feel strongly enough about the social aspect of school being more important to ones development than academic developmentthat I'd not do it.
I also feel confident that this is a turn-around year for her. I can already see so much happening. I'll keep working with her because I can learn so much. However, I can see I'll spend less time with her and start working with her brother.
Something to consider when working with kids is the installation of a good work ethic. Also the idea of balance in life. You must put energy into all aspects of your life. A neglect or weakness in one area can draw the others down. So sometimes the area where you notice needing work is not the area you need to work on. Also if you don't know how to help one area of your life, working on others can have great indirect benefit.
Just more sharing.
You are perfection.
Iam2 
