Hello EricML - you might want to find out more about NLP and in particular your 'convincer strategy' - that is the internal strategy you apply when you have to be convinced of the action to take. You don't sound like a one time convincer - so you may have to think through precisely what you do when you do make a decision. This may include assessing things from different perspectives - how you see, feel and hear things nd the number of times you 'loop' thru this process that enables you to reach a decision. I suggest you go to Michael Hall's website and find outmore about convincer and just remember - there are some real benefits from thinking things through howver long you take - the website is
http://www.neurosemantics.com/ - you may also find useful info on convincer on Richard Bandler's site
http://www.purenlp.com/