Making choices is almost an art for some people.
The ones I have observed who are the best at it don't make a choice at all, they let things fall into place and it's almost like they are picking a delicious strawberry. Like the strawberry the choice is just sitting there waiting to be picked.
Or circumstances unfold and the choice is obvious and they never have to think very hard about what to do only give the final approval.
I worked with an old fisherman one time and he would like to discuss his thinking, maybe talk about dry docking his boat and sort of go through what he was expecting and how to deal with it. He would always end off with "Well, we don't have to make a decision now." and he never did. When he got into drydock he let the boat tell him what it needed and he just took care of it.
So might think about this method. You don't have to make a decision, let "it" make the obvious choice for you. Alot less stress.
