Brian649,

Hi, I just read your post and some of your feelings. May I suggest you read this link:
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1563824477/qid=985155839/sr=1-3/re f=sc_b_4/002-4093418-8494415

I just like the analogy he gives at the end, it kinda reminds me of your situation.
Cheers.

PS Though I don't presume what your real situation is, sorry If I am way offbase.

[This message has been edited by chaosadelt (edited March 21, 2001).]