For Instantaneous Personal Magnetism, use someone you see on TV or in the movies. That's typically the easiest place to find models. But, keep your eyes open for people in stores, on the streets, at schools, any where. Listen to the tape within two hours of when you see someone who is particularly magnetic.
As far as the New Behavior Generator: people tend to get better results when you use a model outside of yourself. The tape is set up so you try on the behavior to see how they fit. Some people find it challenging to find that perfect model, so the tape allows you to try on the behavior before keeping it as your own.
Using yourself can be effective when you've sincerely demonstrated all or part of the behavior yourself in the past.
