Caveat: as a result of re-evaluating your priorities and values, you may determine on some level that you will never do whatever it is you approached the tape to do. You have to respect that.
When customers first started to relay their experiences from along this line, I was somewhat disappointed. I guess I was hoping it would "force" someone to do something. Of course, Paul set me straight on this. : )
In thinking about it I realized the importance of living your life on track with your values and priorities. It should not be about doing things at all costs.