Its never one thing that makes you do something like this. Its either you arent trying hard enough, your trying to hard, or your not trying at all. Thats the way I see it. I didnt write that response thinking "now lets be an ass to this guy" but "lets try to give him advice because he doesnt seem to be going about this right."

Now if you are gonna crawl up my arse for that, more power to ya, but your only hurting yourself.