The Photofocus step IS crutial.
What is not important is seeing the blip. Being 'Relaxed' and having a 'Soft Gaze' are the two important factors to remember in Photofocus.
The Photofocus step does get easier in time ... it will become second nature. I literally can engage and hold the Photofocus in a matter of seconds as will you, in time.
Love Light and Laughter,
Michael