One last thing: PhRing is probably the best self improvement program out there because it really exposes our weaknesses. Nothing has ever exposed me to myself like PhRing has. For anyone w/ issues, PhRing is an education in itself. You can fail at it & get upset and you can be terrific at it and still get up set.
My hat is off to the kids and people who just do it & happily go on their merry way. You people who just go on your merry way, have some kind thoughts for those of us who can't 