The only reason i posted in the photoreading forum is because i am just starting photoreading, and couldn't think of anywhere else to put it, so feel free to give me whatever advice you may have. While I greatly appreciate the advice given for my girlfriend, I'm still trying to figure out what to do about my own problems of getting sick when attempting to do my work. I have little time remaining to improve before it's too late to do any good (if it isn't already). I'll research this Neuro-Lingustic Programming (I assume that's what NLP is) and see what i can get from it. My photoreading development has been delayed due to procrastination and my lack of an ability to see the blip page (can see the X tho) and my severe inability to clear my mind. My 'mild ADD', if that is what it is, causes my head to be constantly flooded with thoughts and images, and refuses to be cleared, and sometimes hard to direct to the task(s) at hand. I am also not a believer in using medication to solve one's problems unless absolutely necesarry due to the major side effects most have in the long term (I still thank my parents for not putting me on ritalin, most people i kno who were on it just slept all day, or were in a daze, not really there, and many now have health problems) Sorry for the long posts and many thanks to all who reply. Still lookin for anyone to chat with 1 on 1, if anyone is interested. THX again all.