Thanks Dosetsu! That's a very interesting post. And the last bit of the post is important. I'm a person who uses rapport a lot with people and I'm going to be a psychologist. I do need to find ways not to build rapport. I don't even think about it. Whenever I'm with people I do it. Voice, gestures, words.. Defenses will be important. Or changing a few beliefs about relations....

Tore