Hi Namreka7, this may sound goofy, but on a Brian Tracy tape I have, he suggests that if you cannot nail down a major goal, make it your major goal to get a major goal.
As far as feeling guilty, maybe a goal could be to not let negative emotions interfere with your life?
I am about 2/3 through Decisive Action, after having completed Ideal Mindset (I bought the set like you did) and I intend to go through the course several times. So I would recommend pick any old goal just to play with it, and I'm sure each time you go through it you will refine and reset your big goals. I have found that only one pass through Ideal Mindset my "major goals" were altered somewhat. What the heck, Ideal Mindset only takes 8 days.
I hope this helps.
George
