Wow... .... I don't believe it... This discussion has hit me right on the spot! Whew!

First, it was a relief to know that there are others! I have picked other peoples bad moods all my life and it has been getting worse with PhRing. I sort of PhRed other people and their moods (I know my state was close to the PhRing state).

Second, my mind started to create solutions.. I asked myself: "Well, I have been too sensitive to other people's moods but I don't want to be anymore. Let's see, what can I do? What do I want instead? -??......? -... ?! -Aahaa, I want to be COMFORTABLE even though there are people with bad moods around me!! I want to be ME and have MY feelings and not other people's bad feelings! What choices do I have...?" -And that's when my mind started to explore. .....

Today I have found my solution and it's very simple... I just put music in my head instead of hearing other people's negative selftalk! (...because that's what I was picking up, other people's selftalk... that's what I was sensitive to!!). OK, I had to find the right piece of music first (it's on the Ocean's eleven soundtrack), but it works!

So, THANK YOU ALL GUYS OUT THERE!!! Your discussion has helped me a ducking lot! I wanted to share my joy with you! -Purjo