I just remembered a situation that Paul Scheele mentioned, which might help with deciding on a goal when listening to Proserity. He talked to a customer who said that the tape was not working. Paul asked what his goal was when listening. The customer's focus was on money, he knew the exact amount he wanted, and a new car. He knew the model of the car, the price, etc. His goal was specific right down to the color. Paul advised that instead, he should think about the end result that a car or money would bring. Transportation? Freedom? The point is not to limit the flow of prosperity. The idea is to remain open to unlimited possibilities. So, when you focus on the exact person you're looking for, what you're doing is actually limiting the possibilities. What do you want? To be happy? Forget about your ex? So try to think about the end result that you want. And notice the possibilities.