Forums IMPORTANT: PLEASE READ Spring Forest Qigong how to help unobtrusively

please help if you can

I cannot access SFQ3 until at least June next year and this level as I understand it, deals with distance healing as well as opening of the third eye etc which I think will be of some great benefit to me and the work that I currently do. I'm looking forward to this so much.

In the meantime, I would appreciate some guidance from the very special people who are active in this forum about how I can possibly help, in an unobtrusive way, people with whom I come into contact that may not appreciate a SFQ healing and in most cases, where it is probably not considered to be appropriate or my role to advocate for that kind of healing (regardless of my personal passion and deep beliefs).

To expand, I work as a HR Manager and on a daily basis, see many people who have seriously complex lives that have rendered them ill, injured or unable to sustain a normal working pattern for so many tragic reasons.

In many cases they have been unable to get appropriate healing or assistance in dealing with significant personal problems, or basically guidance in taking control of themselves and their lives.

Most of these people have no idea of the infinite and universally free resources available to them, and in their present states of mind, are often not receptive to anything that is outside their immediate area of concern - which is often how to survive from day to day both financially and physically.

I ask for help because it appears that the lessons are being sent to me over and over again, and I don't seem to be able to get my purpose in it all yet!

In hope
Jetay

Dear Jetay,

You are a loving, giving person, and I'm sure you are much valued in the position you hold. I think that you can do a lot of helping behind the scenes. Take a look in the other thread, the one you started about Level 3, and look at what Justcappy said about helping people in a private sort of way. You ask for guidance, and help as you can, without looking too much at the outcome.

I'm sure other folks will have suggestions for you too. Maybe I'll meet you in June, since I'm planning to attend that one as well. - - Anita

My suggestion, is what I do. It is not part of the teaching here. I just send love to people. I will bless them in the way I feel they need it. If I am wrong in my assessment, I feel confident that my energy will be directed correctly since my intent is to help.

If I have a prolong contact, I will try and strenghten my message and my connection with the universal energy.

I do this all while I interact normally. Which translate into the listening phase of an interaction.

I give what I can. Peoples conscious mind may reject the offers, if I made them. They can even reject the energy I send, but I suspect that few spirits would reject the gifts.

Just my thoughts and actions.

You are perfection.
Iam2

Dear Jetay,
As Anita stated, you are a loving and giving person. You are also aware of the state of being, 'most' people are in. This is the way things currently are. It is not always possible to engage with people, even if you know they will benefit from what you are learning, or what you are aware of. A bottom line rule to observe, is not to push your knowledge on someone else, which I am sure you don't. It is always best, if someone 'asks' for help. 'You can promote what you know by being yourself.' Often, it will attract people, and bring about the right conversations, and openings to help in a more direct way. Otherwise, know that the work you do for yourself, effects the whole in a positive way. You can , of course, always do positive visualizations for other people, or, for the whole world, peace, healing, mother earth, etc... You can bring people into your meditations/exercises... You can smile at people and engage them with your eyes and heart. You walk your walk, you carry a vibration, you bring this into the mix. Keep doing the work. Compassion is good to feel, unconditional love... Not making judgements as you observe.
love,
gallen

Ooops another long one...
Jetay, this is a wonderful question. I think gallen stated it best that you can not push belief on other people and I agree I know you are not doing this. It is a challenge at times though when you know you can help someone and you have nothing but a closed book to work with. Know this that the personal work you are doing IS having an effect on them. So you are helping them inadvertently shifting there energy to a positive awakening light. Reread gallens post it clarifies a lot.

Sometimes personal energy can be drained when we try to work outside ourselves by worrying about this, trying to change that or whatever. However, our personal energies grows in abundance as we take care of ourselves. This effect ripples outward and others pickup on it either consciously or subconsciously. So always look for what feeds the soul it is always the right path.

Baby steps are probably the key in a close minded world/environment. Focus on yourself while keeping your awareness alive for the signs in others for periodic open mindedness. Sometimes your job is as simple as planting a seed (with out attachment) here in there. Sometimes you see it will take hold other times it appears that it doesn’t but once planted it will grow. Sometimes you could be passing information subtlety to one person and others that are meant to here are getting it on another level. Caution is always warranted as you don’t want to offend or squash another’s belief so how you neutrally state something can be the key as well. Again these are not things you would actively peruse as this has a draining feel to it. As log as you are open to the signs the moments will come and openness will grow.

The unattached approach to providing seeds for change is important as you don’t want to get caught in an emotional battle of right and wrong when someone challenges you because of there belief on some issue. Any thing can be stated as a fact of what is or the possibility of what might be another way to viewing something more than what is black and white right in front of someone. A good come back to the doubting Thomas’es of the world is to take something (paper, pencil whatever) and let it drop before there eyes. Ask them what made that drop, gravity is usually the answer to which you reply can you see gravity. Can you see the air you breathe? What keeps the moon from crashing into the earth or spinning out into space, and so on. There are many things we can not explain yet they are there just the same.

A little echo of Ascending1's words and taken from Paul's mouth (whether that is the true starting place I don't know). My answers are not everyone's answers. My goal is to help others even if it means not coming to my answer.

When I engage in conversation. I gently bring up the topic and follow as seems natural for the people involved. For some situations it is not appropriate to raise the topic and so sending my good wishes in the form I feel is appropriate. I follow my judgement and believe it guides true.

You are perfection.
Iam2

Thank you so much everyone for sharing your thoughts and experiences - you're all so right and wise - and as you all carefully pointed out - I certainly haven't been pushing my thoughts or beliefs onto other people in a verbal way - that is definitely not my approach, and I guess in my heart I had an inkling of the answers that might come.

Gallen your comments are absolutely right as usual and I understand what you are saying completely. You have made me feel so much better to know that what I am currently doing, even if for me doesn't seem to be quite adequate, is actually the best I can do for the moment. I will certainly take your advice and keep "being myself".

I will keep sending my thoughts of love and kindness and hope to these people so that they may possibly get a sense of the wonder that they can achieve themselves.

Thank you all again - I love this forum, it has been so helpful to me to read all of the wonderful posts and learn so much.

Anita it would be wonderful to meet you next June - I'm still planning to be there and can't wait.

With love
Jetay