Thank you so much everyone for sharing your thoughts and experiences - you're all so right and wise - and as you all carefully pointed out - I certainly haven't been pushing my thoughts or beliefs onto other people in a verbal way - that is definitely not my approach, and I guess in my heart I had an inkling of the answers that might come.
Gallen your comments are absolutely right as usual and I understand what you are saying completely. You have made me feel so much better to know that what I am currently doing, even if for me doesn't seem to be quite adequate, is actually the best I can do for the moment. I will certainly take your advice and keep "being myself".
I will keep sending my thoughts of love and kindness and hope to these people so that they may possibly get a sense of the wonder that they can achieve themselves.
Thank you all again - I love this forum, it has been so helpful to me to read all of the wonderful posts and learn so much.
Anita it would be wonderful to meet you next June - I'm still planning to be there and can't wait.
With love
Jetay
