OK, Now I get it!! Of course it is the suggestion by Mr. Lin!
I was not particularly worried about this thing, and now I'm even less. I know I'm still going through big things, sometimes i find myself in a strange land inside my head.
Thank you all, Gallen, Skusnerz and Iam2, for your replies. I'm glad I asked.
...and Gallen, about your second post, English is not my native language and I may have implied more than I intended. Who knows?
-purjo
