Shane

it sounds to me like you're doing good work with your family. Older children get restless with the SFQ healing too and your strategies are good ones. I have sometimes 'treated' my children from another room by visualising as suggested by DesertSphinx (it also helps me to stay in a more resourceful state because I am less prone to irritation which gets in the way of the love, kindness, forgiveness!!) and I certainly have to visualise the small universe on occasions if they can't sit up. As Chunyi says the mind is sometimes more powerful. He might say it's always more powerful- check out the first 2 tapes of SFQ1.

Keep doing waht you're doing - it's good work.

Love

Kev