Lynnlingh, I came to your thread because of the topic of "congruence". You seem to have settled your issues and made your decision. However, that won't stop me from rambling a bit. When your look at yourself, and figure out what is important to you and see apparent conflicts. You may have to spend a little more time. Then as Ingrid suggested in several ways you find that you can retain your congruency and discover the balance to pursue your direction. Being aware of who your are, what is truly important to you, what you value most, always helps me to establish a healthy balance.
You are perfect.
Iam2
