To Grant. Yes I'm very busy... don't have so much time off.. But If I'm not into a date one night I just cancel the date... Or if some courses take more time that I thought, then I also have to cancel dates. That happens now and then. Like I had a 3 week intensive course the last 3 weeks. We often ended up with laboratory work til six-nine o'clock in the afternoon.. Normally my dates are at seven o'clock in the afternoon, så had to cancel quite a few. And was pretty tired at that time too... So not so many dates theese three weeks. But mostly my university grades are only A's... That means on a danish grade scale: 10, 11 and 13. Finished this semester with one 11, two 10's and one 9. And pass a pass/not pass course. Just waiting for two more grades to come...that has not been anounced yet. But anyway, If you are on a lot of dates, you often also ends up cancel many of them.. And as long you give the girls a good explenation of why (in an sms works fine apparently) then you can always reschedule your date to another time... If you cancel a second time two, then she will not trust you that any dates will happen with you, or she gets mad or loose interests.... Ok, only sometimes.... But mostly you can speak your way around it and say something like "Ok, lets try it a last time... If it does not happen THIS time, then it's probably not ment to be us"*s*.... Show som disinterest in her, and being busy normally actually creates attraction in a girl.... You don't seem needy then. Anybody agree??

Murof.