Murof
I had a very influential dream a year or two ago.
In the dream their was a girl, studying at a university, who I really liked, so I decided in order to win the girl I would go to the university by hook or by crook. Everyday I paid a visitors entrance to the university and acted as if I studied there. The girl was very impressed by my charms and teases but when she found out I was not really studying at the university, she left me for a boring boyfriend who had no charms but who was studying hard and was honest in his ways, a guy who was who he said he was.
I woke from the dream frustrated because I had been learning seduction methods in order to capture a girls heart and could not possibly be the real deal because seduction only includes some superficial external behaviours of a truly loving relationship.
Anyway there is hope because as the dream ended just before I woke up I said to a friend, that a guy needs seduction skills AND the real deal of long lasting commitment to catch the really special girl, that will actually satisfy his deepest desires.
So I figure with you Murof you are learning one part, but as souls speak a similar language like my dream I'm sure your soul longs for something special that can only come when you have what it takes to be committed.
I have read much information that states seduction is something that goes against commitment, but I have felt that a much more fulfilling relationship would result from integrating the two.
What do you think Murof?
