lol, you don't need feng shui to live together or have your dream job. feng shui is an attractor not some system that will hand things to you.
feng shui can help you attract more opportunities, increase energy, but it still is up to you to take action and to see through those opportunity if your not blind to them.
you can find a home that fits both of you feng shui wise so that how you feng shiu will support both your goals. think of feng shui as a supporter.