I just wanted to follow up and let forum know the outcome of letting my assistant sit in my best direction which was her frustation direction. I posted this question a year ago and less than a year later she became very frustrated with the job and had moved on to another company working part time. It worked out good for me because now I have a better assistant who has taken my buisiness to the next level. I better check out what her best directions are! I want her to stay!