Babayada, then you'd agree with me that subliminals aren't healthy but promote delusion?

But I still feel I can have as many self-concepts as peoples perceptions of me. Even my sister perceives me as different from my dad. And a girlfriend might perceive me as wonderful one day but terrible the next. If I base my self-concept on my own opinion I'm really going to get a one-sided view!

A basic premise of NLP is that we are not actually perceiving reality, but have 'sunglasses' on through which we see the world, and ourselves.