Hi Clairvoyant
I agree with the advice from Unis and golden. I would add the new Talking to Win paraliminall too...and the self esteem one if you have it.

I have used the Natural Brillinace course several times over the past year and a half, and it is wonderful. I have used it to resolve stuck states and to build everyday skills too.

Looks like you do recognise a pattern, you have described on in your post, so probably the answer to the first question is yes. And, in you post, you answered the second question by describing the pattern and situation. You may be ready now to do the next piece.

vitaman