First, define "attractive" Chances are, when you take a look at your values, there it will be. Not neccesarily good looking- though that is important for some people.
I meet wonderfuly attractive people all the time- not usualy the "actress/model/hollywood beauty pretty" atributes, but genuinely attractive- smart funny spiritual altruistic etc. Sure, I notice brown eyed brunettes more often, but beyond that, the other stuff has to be there for me. That is the stuff that will likely still be there when the brown hair turns grey and the brown eyes are hiding behind thick lenses...
Next, let go of any outcomes. As long as you are attached to some outcome, invested in some way, there is possibly the chance to be afraid of rejection. No outcome to be attached to? No possibility to fear rejection! - and it is easy to just be you, natural.
Also remember that everyone is looking for the same things at the core- and everyone is afraid too. If someone does not respond to your flirtation, it might not even be about you....
And to add to Alex excellent list- Belief (that you can have a relationship, that you are worthwhile, etc) and Prosperity- (of opportunities to meet people, of opportunities to notice women noticing you, etc)
vitaman
