Also when you have no outcome you get whatever drifts your way because you didn't decide.

Its like saying, "God, give me a wife" and you get your wife but she is everything you dispise as a person. Dishonest, unfaithful, abusive, etc. hey, no complaints right? After all, you had not outcome. But wait!! Wanting a relationship is an outcome!!! So you can't want that either. So is wanting to be happy or spiritual or anything else you can think of. You had better lock yourself up right away to avoid any outcomes. just sit in your basement and wait to see what god will bring you. Then, after you are dead you can ask why he didn't feed you to keep you alive.

The power is in your own hands. We are co-creators and there is no difference to god whether you get a fat bucktoothed woman who will spend all your money or the girl of your dreams. Both are out there and both can be had. Everything is energy and exchange of energy. Don't limit yourself out of fear. Go after what you really want without wondering anything. if you can imagine it, its out there somewhere. Draw it towards you through the Force.