Lord Shandor, I dont think I communicated what I intended- and I also think you ran with it in a very exagerated way.
Of course, we have outcomes in mind- but if you approach a woman with an attachment to that outcome, all kinds of stuff is automaticaly in the way, i.e. fear, projection, etc.
Yes, ask God for the good stuff- and notice your values, your preferences, etc. Those are your filters. I have never suggested that you "settle" for something that does not fit! Make sure it fits YOUR values- not someone elses. If you like chuby girls, great, if you have a thing for buck teeth, wonderful. If those things dont matter but sweetness does, go for it.
Yes, we are co-creators. We have a tremendous ability to proact and create. BUT I also believe that a certain amount of surrender is needed, especialy in spirituality and relationships.
vitaman
