I'm assuming you're a man. It wasn't specified.
If you are, go read the following:
+ The Game by Neil Strauss
+ The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida
+ Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway by Susan Jeffers
Then go out and talk to a few hundred women with some cool, single guy friends until you are no longer afraid.
Also define exactly what you want in a partner, and what standards you have in relationship.
And dress sexy and smell good.
If you're still freaked out, do some internet research on "seduction"--but be careful to not make it the end all be all.
Do the above and you can make your chances of meeting an attractive woman who holds your values 100%.
